After watching TNG for the first time since childhood and reading Wesley as queer, I'd be really interested to hear your thoughts on the subject.
I don’t think it’s canon, but there’s no reason he can’t be queer. In fact, I think it makes him kind of interesting, if he is.
EDIT: I’ve been thinking about this, and I kind of love the idea that Wesley Crusher is queer. I was concerned that we couldn’t do that, because it never really presents that way in the show (he clearly wasn’t written that way, and I’m straight, so) BUT! In the 24th century, we’ve grown so accepting of our fellow humans, there’s nothing remarkable at all about not being straight and/or cis. He’s doing queer stuff all the time, and nobody says anything about it, because it’s just who he is. It’s as normal as having brown hair. So Wesley never gets to kiss a cute boy, but maybe he does when we aren’t looking. I see no reason why we can’t add this to our headcanon.
NB: I hope this makes sense and isn’t offensive to my queer friends. I’m boring and straight and I don’t know what your experience is like, so I hope my thoughts on this aren’t too ignorant.
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